1.2.2 Reflective Exercise: How Personality is Formed

Let's think about how personality is formed. Take a minute to complete the following:

Describe each of your parents in some detail.
Here is an example: My father was quiet and reserved around people. He was stern in his demeanor and a strict parent. He needed a beer to loosen up. He was very protective of his family members, loved to negotiate deals, argue controversial topics, and preferred to be self-employed during most of his adulthood despite lacking good business knowledge. He was very independent and a risk-taker. Now it is your turn.

In what ways are you like each of your parents?
Example: I am also quiet until I get to know people and tend to be reserved. I am very independent and enjoy a good intellectual argument.

In what ways are you unlike each of your parents?
Example: Unlike my father, I do not like to negotiate and make deals. I take risks, but they are carefully measured and planned.

Do you see any personality similarities between your children, you, and your parents?
Example: My youngest son loves to argue controversial topics, negotiate deals, and compete. He is determined to never work in a cubicle at a "regular" job. My oldest son is a real risk taker. He will try anything and prides himself on being independent. He tends to be a bit reserved in a new social setting.

There is no need to submit the answers to this exercise. Think about the answers to the questions, and if you wish, you may choose to share any insights on the course Web site.